In reply to Cynthia Goodwin-Sak.

Hi Cynthia - he was the exception. I remember feeling somehow responsible because I had invited him out, but that was just out of kindness, and a sense of "team" I'd counsel others in a similar situation to report it, perhaps at the time it wasn't the done thing and of course at 23 I didn't know the best way to go AND there wasn't really an obvious process at the time. I'm sure those processes at there now. Glad you posted what you did. S.